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I am at a Cross road, please advise me

Life Realities - March 15, 2021

Tolu Oyetoki

Sadly, two weeks after I engaged Cynthia and she agreed to marry me, Rhoda called for the first time to request to see me. I gladly welcome her and she told me that her fiancee ended up jilting her, called off their wedding plans and that she is now ready to be my wife earlier requested. I remember how much I loved Rhoda, I am confused, I don’t know wat to do because I love Rohoda so much and I am feeling guilty to dumpt Cynthia who showed me love and care,

Dear Tolu,
Please help me to share this experience of mine, I need advise on what to do.
I am deeply in love with a lady in my estate. Rhoda meant everything to me. I showed her cares and gave whatever she requested of me but for four years, told me that we can only be friends and tat she cannot marry me. I persisted in my baby plea to her for four years until the day I saw her wedding invitation. It was then that I made up my mind to look elsewhere but the love I are for her remained strong.


I met another Lady, Cynthia, who was kind to me during a seminar in Abuja. I invited her into my room just for the night and she was pleasant. I asked how much she would collect but she only told me that sleeping with me was because she loved me at first sight and that she is not a prostitute. My friends heard about her and advised that I use her as replacement for Rhoda.
Sadly, two weeks after I engaged Cynthia and she agreed to marry me, Rhoda called for the first time to request to see me. I gladly welcome her and she told me that her fiancee ended up jilting her, called off their wedding plans and that she is now ready to be my wife earlier requested. I remember how much I loved Rhoda, I am confused, I don’t know wat to do because I love Rohoda so much and I am feeling guilty to dumpt Cynthia who showed me love and care, pease advice me.

Ben KT,
Aflao, Ghana

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